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not here to lecture you or protect you. I don’t want to waste
any of your time on a story that you can tell your friends on
day about how I went on this website and I finally realized how bad of
a boyfriend he is and maybe I should consider dumping him. Well
it’s not that type of party here.
Yes life can chew you up and spit you out and then stomp on you in the middle of a busy street with trucks and jeeps but you MUST learn how to overcome it all. Even when your heart feels like its spitting out blood and your mind is a photobook of his/her face. You MUST and I mean MUST not let yourself lose control. Lets use this example for instance Lisa is a beautiful successful stress free woman who has a beautiful house nice big crib and a man who works at a very successful law firm. He showers her with expenses gifts and pleases her with money and all that good stuff. He seems to be her everything but beneath the lovey dovey kissy kissy. Her goody two shoes husband is a cheating lying scum who has two baby mamas and sideline chick. Two houses down from their beautiful mansion. Think this is a failure to launch situation? What about her problems of her overeating and self esteem Jumping from sky high way in the space to falling way too far from when her mother used to call her her princess and life seemed so perfect. She looks at her wedding pictures everyday and wonders why her once perfect relationship with her spouse fell so abruptly and why she stopped caring for the person who once loved her. Also vowed to never leave her and the person whom she once loved more than the anybody in the entire world besides God…herself. Now life is just a blur and she’s constantly wondering why her life turned out to be so miserable. She looks into her past the not-so-long-ago past and realizes that sometimes she never even gave her man the chance. When he had problems she dissed him because of her own situations at work. How she wanted so bad to be promoted to partner. That she forgot the little but important things, like planning his surprise party. Accidently running over his dog and missing the fives times the anniversary gifts that he never forgot to give her. Now does he really seem like a cheating, lying scum who’s just like all the other deadbeat husbands in the world. I know people relax ten minutes have already went by and youre probably missing your favorite show that like 30. By Sharita Harris |
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